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• People who are doing well and want to do better; who want to move past a deficit notion of themselves as depressed, lonely and not in control into the positive zone of self efficacy and rational happiness;who want to get past some final barriers to achieve their goals in life; who want some coaching to help understand themselves and their relationships in a compassionate realistic way; who want personal growth rooted in reality and not promising the impossible; who do not want to end up disillusioned when they find they cannot live in a human way with the "solutions" some approaches offer them.
• People who want help finding their "signature strengths" and pathways to creating "flow" and creativity;who want relationships built on friendship and love; who want to discover Gratitude as a prime agent of change, joy enhancement and the door to embracing forms of life engagement that expand not only personal horizons of happiness, but quite naturally evolve into interpersonal and larger structures of social compassion and loving concern for our fellow humans.

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I am an educator, life coach and mentor with three decades of experience as a clinician
dealing with a very broad range of human problems. I have formal training as a
psychotherapist from well regarded educational institutions as well as a special
approach which can be very effective in giving you relief in a relatively short
amount of time. There is no magic, but I am resourceful, experienced and my
approach, called the Option Method [See
the excerpts from my Joybuilding Workbook and Joywords], is a down
to earth, pragmatic way of giving you the tools to help yourself and to continue
to grow because those tools have been created to reflect what it is really like
to be human.

Working Online with someone is a new way to seek help. For a variety of reasons,
many people prefer to consult by phone, video phone, or e-mail. Busy schedules,
difficulty with traveling to an office, fear of going out in public, privacy
concerns, and 24 hour availability are only a few of the reasons given for using
this approach.
With e-mail, much of the benefit for you will derive from
the writing itself. You may have a simple one-time question, or you may choose
to use this as a way to establish a longer term relationship using other
modalities as well.
Telephone, videophone offer additional options from
which to choose.
It may be a comfortable, convenient way for you to
begin opening up to another person and trying out my approach to your problems.
You may already be familiar with therapy and wish to choose this new option for
the added convenience and privacy it offers. Many people prefer this approach to
prevent having a mental health record with insurance companies.

My site is fairly extensive. Take your time and look it over carefully. If you
want more information, you can contact me by e-mail and I will help you decide
whether my approach might be of value to you. All the tools to educate yourself
through this site, my books and the range of contact choices, e-mail, chat room,
phone, or even video conferencing are at your disposal when you are ready. Just
click on the titles in the left frame to get more information about any aspect
of me or my approach to helping you. Remember, you can e-mail me without
charge to find out more and you can read sections of my books both here at my
site and at the publishers, iuniverse.com, to see if your issues are not
helpfully addressed by what I have written. Just click on the "Order
Books" button for more information. Enjoy your journey and I wish you the best
whatever your decision might be.
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